Struggling to Connect?
Relationship Coaching That Helps Couples Feel Close Again.
I'm Stephen Bickle — I help couples improve communication, heal resentment, and rebuild emotional intimacy — in Los Angeles, Santa Monica, and online.
I don’t take sides — I help you get back on the same team.
All relationships go through ups and downs. That’s normal.
If love were easy all the time, there wouldn’t be thousands of songs about heartbreak, longing, and missed connection.
Feeling disconnected doesn’t mean your relationship is broken — it usually means life got busy, stress crept in, or you stopped turning toward each other without realizing it.
This isn’t a sign to give up.
It’s a sign that it’s time to slow down, put some intention back into the relationship, and remember that you’re on the same team.
Real connection doesn’t come from avoiding hard moments — it comes from learning how to meet them together.
The Coaching Journey
Healing Resentments
We uncover hidden resentments & unspoken hurts — the blocks that quietly break connection.
Getting on the Same Page
You’ll deepen understanding, align goals, and build a shared vision for your relationship.
Learning the Tools
Communication skills, repair tools, intimacy exercises — all tailored to your real life.
Becoming Teammates Again
The outcome: a true partnership again — connection, teamwork, trust, and emotional safety.
Free Guides to Help You Rebuild Connection
Understand what’s creating distance, how to reconnect, and how to rebuild intimacy. Get all three instantly with one simple signup.
7 Signs Resentment Is Killing Your Relationship
Recognize the hidden patterns creating emotional distance.
From Roommates to Teammates
Understanding the distance and how to rebuild connection
Feeling Unseen or Unappreciated?
Why feeling seen matters in love!
Ready for a Relationship Breakthrough?
Your free 15-minute call will help you understand what's happening, where to go next, and how to start rebuilding connection immediately.
What Clients Say
Stephen helped us break a 10-year cycle of resentment. Our home feels calm again.
I felt safe and seen in every session. We had conversations we avoided for years.
As a man, I appreciated that Stephen didn’t take sides. He helped me show up better.