Stephen Bickle Relationship Coach Santa Monica

Rebuild Your Connection.
Heal What’s Hurting.
Love Each Other Again.

I'm Stephen Bickle — I help couples and individuals strengthen emotional intimacy, release old resentments, and rebuild their relationship through honesty, clarity, and powerful communication tools. I don’t take sides — I help you become a team again.

You’re Not Alone — Every Relationship Hits a Stuck Point

It’s normal for couples to drift. Normal to get overwhelmed. Normal to feel like communication has gotten harder than it should be.

This isn’t a sign that something’s wrong with you.
It’s a sign that life has been happening around you.

All relationships experience seasons of closeness and seasons of strain. What matters isn’t avoiding the hard seasons — it’s having the tools to move through them together.

Coaching helps you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface and gives you a clearer, healthier way forward.

You don’t have to stay stuck. You just have to start.

The Coaching Journey

Healing Resentments

We uncover hidden resentments & unspoken hurts — the blocks that quietly break connection.

Getting on the Same Page

You’ll deepen understanding, align goals, and build a shared vision for your relationship.

Learning the Tools

Communication skills, repair tools, intimacy exercises — all tailored to your real life.

Becoming Teammates Again

The outcome: a true partnership again — connection, teamwork, trust, and emotional safety.

Free Guides to Help You Rebuild Connection

Understand what’s creating distance, how to reconnect, and how to rebuild intimacy. Get all three instantly with one simple signup.

7 Signs Resentment Is Killing Your Relationship

Recognize the hidden patterns creating emotional distance.

Understanding Love Languages

Learn how mismatched love languages create unnecessary conflict.

Reconnecting Intimately

A roadmap for rebuilding physical & emotional closeness.

Ready for a Relationship Breakthrough?

Your free 15-minute call will help you understand what's happening, where to go next, and how to start rebuilding connection immediately.

What Clients Say

Stephen helped us break a 10-year cycle of resentment. Our home feels calm again.

– M & J, Santa Monica

I felt safe and seen in every session. We had conversations we avoided for years.

– Sarah, Los Angeles

As a man, I appreciated that Stephen didn’t take sides. He helped me show up better.

– Daniel, Online Client

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