Is It Time to Fall Back in Love with Your Partner?
Most couples don't fall out of love. They get buried under resentments, disconnection, and years of not being truly heard. I help you find your way back — to each other.
"I know what it feels like to lose someone you love slowly. And I know what it takes to find your way back."
— Stephen BickleDoes Any of This Sound Familiar?
These aren't signs your marriage is over. They're signs it's asking for attention.
You feel more like roommates than partners — sharing a home but not a life
The same fights keep happening, no matter how many times you try to resolve them
One of you has stopped bringing things up because it never goes anywhere
You love each other but you're not sure if you're still in love
One partner is reaching out, trying — and the other has pulled away
You've tried talking about it but can't seem to have the real conversation
I'm Not Teaching Theory. I've Lived This.
My wife and I have been together for 36 years. There was a point where we had become strangers who shared a house. I was doing everything I knew how to do and still losing her. Slowly, quietly, and then all at once.
When we finally hit the wall, I had a choice — walk away or do the hardest work of my life. I joined a men's team. I learned what emotional safety actually means. I learned how to show up differently — not better, differently.
What we built on the other side isn't a fairy tale. It's real. It's deep. It's a kind of connection I didn't know was possible after 36 years together. That's what I teach couples now. Not how to pretend. How to build something real.
Two Programs. One Goal.
Whether you need to stop the bleeding right now or you're ready for a full transformation, there's a clear path forward.
Stop the Bleeding
For couples in active pain who need immediate relief. Six sessions over two weeks that break the cycle and help you both breathe again.
- 6 sessions over 2 weeks (3 per week)
- Map and begin clearing accumulated resentments
- Understand the real fight underneath the surface fight
- Homework and tools between sessions
- Direct access to Stephen between sessions
Fall Back in Love
The complete program. Clear the resentments, build a shared vision, and rebuild the intimacy and connection you thought you'd lost.
- 12 bi-weekly sessions over 90 days
- Month 1: Heal the resentments — clear the foundation
- Month 2: Build a shared vision for your marriage
- Month 3: Rebuild intimacy, closeness & tools for life
- Unlimited check-ins between sessions
- $1,200 credit if coming from Stop the Bleeding
Real Couples. Real Results.
Stephen helped us break a 10-year cycle of resentment. We had the same fight for a decade and couldn't see it. After two weeks with Stephen, our home feels calm again.— M & J, Santa Monica
I felt safe and seen in every session. We had conversations we had been avoiding for years. I didn't think my husband would open up like that. He did.— Sarah, Los Angeles
As a man, I appreciated that Stephen never took sides. He helped me understand what my wife actually needed — and how to show up for her in a way that finally worked.— Daniel, Online Client
The Conversation That Could Change Everything
A free 30-minute Marriage Reality Check where we look honestly at what's happening in your relationship, what's driving it, and what it would take to change. No pressure, no pitch — just a real conversation.
Book Your Free Marriage Reality CheckFree 30-minute call · Available online & in Santa Monica · No commitment required