I read every message myself and reply within a day. There is no assistant, no chatbot, and no sequence of emails trying to book you into something.
A sentence is plenty. “We keep having the same fight” tells me more than a page of background does.
Both reach me directly. The call is free, 15 minutes, and there is no pitch on it.
Reply within 24 hours, personally, not from a template.
Fifteen minutes. It is a conversation, not a screening, and nothing is sold on it.
What is happening, how long it has been happening, and what you have already tried. You do not need it organized.
Usually about the pattern rather than the last argument. This is the part where most couples hear something they had not put into words yet.
Whether I can help, which format fits, and what it costs. If the honest answer is a therapist, or a free tool, I will say that instead.
Every session runs online, so it makes no difference whether you are in Venice, Pasadena or Vermont.
All of this is free and none of it asks you to talk to anybody.
Within 24 hours, and usually sooner. It will be me, not a template. If you book the call instead, you pick the slot and it is confirmed immediately.
Yes to both. Plenty of those calls end with me pointing someone at a free tool on this site, or at a licensed therapist. I would rather spend fifteen minutes being useful than take money from a couple I am the wrong person for.
Yes. Everything runs online, so where you live makes no difference. I work with couples across Los Angeles, around the country and overseas, all from their own couch. It works better than an office anyway, because people are more honest at home and there is no drive afterward to undo what just got built.
Yes. Plenty of the people I work with come on their own, either because their partner is not ready or because the work they need to do is theirs. One motivated person can change the shape of a relationship, because a pattern needs both people to keep running.
One or two sentences about what is actually happening. You do not need a history and you do not need to make it sound reasonable. “We are roommates” or “we had the same fight again last night” is enough for me to know where to start.
Tell me what is happening and I will tell you whether I can help, which format fits, and what it costs.
Free, 15 minutes, no commitment. Online, from your own couch.